"He does not love me". "He doesn't care about me." "I am unhappy". "What do I do?"...

Have you ever thought like that? I have! And many. When faced with such situations, our self-esteem and self-love go down or even disappear. When we discover that we are not loved as we would like, we lose our ground.

But, let's get straight to the point:

How to forget a love?

Reason a little: We were all children once, and if you are a mother you know very well that when a child really wants a toy, she cries, screams, begs, tries to get attention in every way until she gets what she wants so much want. And then when she succeeds, she plays until she gets sick and finally, the toy is thrown around the corners and she doesn't even care about him anymore. But, if someone threatens to take her toy, she runs and takes it and says: "it's mine!".

Believe it or not, many adults do that too.

What does that mean? Well, if you're over-dedicating yourself in a relationship or you're after someone who doesn't care about you, it's time to change your attitude! He is very unaccustomed to having you whenever you want and you doing everything for him, while he only goes after when it suits.

Don't accept these crumbs! How about taking the toy out for a while? Not! It’s not to treat him badly, it’s to let him go.

START...

It seems a bit repetitive but there is no better therapy than taking care of yourself, and FOR YOU! Go take care of hair, nails, skin, exercise, if you can buy something for you. The more you care and love yourself, the more you will attract attention. Stop calling, texting, even if you need to hang up. Make him miss you! And stop comparing yourself, there is nothing more humiliating than comparing yourself with someone.

There is a phrase that I always carry with me: "WHAT YOU DON'T LIKE, IS ENVYED BY ANOTHER!"

Those famous social media that look so perfect, aren't! There are makeup, a great camera and an excellent editing app. They also know how to exploit their qualities, that is self-love and self-esteem. We all have qualities, not just defects. Exploring this is a constant job. It's normal sometimes to feel down without even wanting to get out of bed, without wanting to take off your pajamas or comb your hair, it's okay with that, what you can't do is let it take care of you every day, especially if it is because of someone.

But then you ask me: WHAT IF AFTER ALL OF THIS, HE DOES NOT CHANGE?

If someone threatens to take the child's toy and he doesn't care anymore, then it's time for the toy to say "goodbye". If there's not a finger of change after all this, now it's up to you. Don't forget that before that you learned to love yourself and appreciate yourself, you don't have to worry so much and then it will be much easier for you.

It hurts at first, I know it hurts. but it hurts humiliation much more for love, affection and attention. If it doesn't change, change you! Stop giving an audience to those who don't know how to be grateful for everything you do and I guarantee you that you will be much happier.